I believe we are being tested when we encounter stuff like this. I lost a friend of 50 years for having a different opnion on world matters. I waited days with my repsonse to an email that spewed quite a bit of poison at me. I feel she was at the edge of seing the light but tracked back into fear and denial. I will keep my door open. Always. Though this may be the end of our friendship we knew it. We learn and grow of which you are an amazing example, Filza. Thank you for sharing this invaluable experience with us!