This is a nightmare, Lisa! Thank you very much for sharing it with us. I can only Imagine what you must go through. Times are fucking scary and inhuman. We all need to work towards more compassion and love. It exists, but maybe no longer in these institutions. People have been doing their best for a long time and are tired and worn out. Just like so many of us.
Churches are inhuman.. That much I know. The last two years have shown very well that they do not do what they preach!
Maybe you can find help in local support group. If not for your mom, at least for yourself! There must be some place for you to turn to. I keep my fingers crossed that something helpful comes your way, Lisa!
A big hug from New Zealand!